I’m letting the boys down..

Taking responsibility, and making the necessary changes to correct a situation, requires one to step back sometimes to say “this isn’t good enough”. Recently I have thought to myself on many occasions, I must take the boys to see their mum’s special place but...

Finding Love In a wheelie-bin full of sick

Finding Love In a wheelie-bin full of sick. The aeroplane to Portugal wasn’t the only thing flying out that day.. Toughest aspect of single parenthood is introducing someone to your children. You could have spent months shaping something that feels right, and...

Do we really put our children first?

Do we really put our children first? Separation for parents can be amongst the toughest experiences in life, the hurt, anger, pain and insecurity can be unbearable and In those moments of feeling utter rejection you are meant to act responsibly on behalf of the...

Coaching Through Grief

Something so harrowing happened today that I cant get it off my mind. I took the children to watch the Tour de France come tearing through the tiny country lanes in a neighbouring village and i ended up comforting a woman watch her husband slipping away before her...

Coaching Butterflies amended

  I get a lot of satisfaction from visiting families who have suffered a loss and talking them through a few of my own observations from the last six years. Doing this makes me feel like I am doing something positive with a negative situation. For those who are...